I understand that with toddlers, the inevitable "why" stage must occur. And it makes sense that as they try to understand the world around them, they ask questions - lots and lots of questions. It also goes to follow that many of those questions are simply expressed as "why?", with each successive answer followed by yet another round of "why?"s. It also makes perfect sense to me, that when something is denied (say, another cookie) an explanation is demanded. However, what I find strange, is the affirmative "why". See examples below:
Hannah: Can I have a cookie, please? (notice how I make her sound so polite?)
Me: Sure. (I am very generous and kind)
Hannah: Why?
Me: Because you asked for one!
Hannah: Can I put this blanket on the chair?
Me: Sure.
Hannah: Why?
Hannah: Am I being really loud?
Me: Yes.
Hannah: Why?
It just seems odd to me. It's like she's pre-programmed to ask "why" in any interaction, whether applicable or not. And what I want to know is...
WHY?
A Calloused Foot
13 years ago
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I have learn to simply ask back..."why do you think [insert whatever here]" It seems to stop the cycle. =)
ReplyDeleteside note: sharlene recommended your blog to me. we went to school in mexico together. i have two very spirited daughters (3.5 and 1.5 years). I can relate to your blog 100%. =)